and then there were none...

what i don't really understand and understand completely all at the same time is how people can treat people/friends/whatever so horribly sometimes, knowing that this person/friend/whatever could, in a heartbeat, be gone from your life forever. friends or people that i know who have died recently, weren't old people aka. people you assume will die soon. these people have been the same age as me or at least close to it. this just proves that, as inevitable as death is, it is also just as unpredictable. why would we want to spend our time and breath on fighting or bickering or generally just disliking someone when we could spend just as much time and energy loving them and making life as nice and amazing for them as possible. you just never know when people are going to dissappear from your life and you really need to cherish these people and learn to forgive and forget while you have the opportunity. i know the last thing anyone wants to be doing after someone's death is beating themselves up because they regret never saying "i'm sorry". or wondering whether or not they could have done something different or better. for crying out loud JUST DO IT!!! be the difference NOW! don't wait, because waiting accomplishes nothing. i guess all i'm trying to say is love as much as you can and as many people as you can, because God gave us the ability to love for a reason.